Nicole Irving, M.A, LPC

Psychotherapist & Owner

If you’re feeling stuck or unsatisfied with your sex life, emotional health, or relationships you’ve come to the right place. Discussing sensitive issues can be hard but I’m here to make these topics easier to address and overcome.

In our sessions, we will normalize frustrations and sexual topics openly and honestly. Together, we will find solutions to help overcome these challenges and strengthen your life, sexual health, and relationships so you can start navigating these difficult issues.

I identify as a sex-positive, LGBTQ+ friendly clinician and am comfortable discussing sex and life difficulties with empathy and understanding. I specialize in working with individuals and couples who are struggling in their sex and relationship lives. I am also a certified provider in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia to help individuals overcome insomnia, as well TS-BTI certified in treating Tourettes Syndrome and Tic Disorders.

Often, many who are struggling are left with no solutions and a lack of helpful information. Too often we receive the hurtful message that there’s something “wrong with you” and no one can help. That is not the case. There are ways forward and help is available to start addressing painful issues and becoming more emotionally, physically, and sexually satisfied.

Treatment Areas:

I specialize in working with couples, relationships, and individuals in the Virginia area.

I treat libido discrepancies, orgasm difficulty, sexual pain, infidelity, sexual identity and orientation, kink/poly exploration, trauma, communication, sexual shame, and attachment or family issues. Additionally, I work with individuals and couples impacted by ADHD, insomnia-related issues, and Tourettes Syndrome.

I incorporate multiple modalities including Sex Therapy, Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, psychodynamic approaches, attachment work, trauma-informed care, the Gottman Method, and mindfulness.

Education:

Post Master’s Certificate in Counseling:

George Washington University, 2020

Master of Arts in Counseling:

New York University, 2019

Currently, I am pursuing my Ph.D. in Clinical Sexology from Modern Sex Therapy Institutes.

Licensure:

Licensed Professional Counselor (VA)

License #: 0701012192

Certifications + Training:

Certified CBT-I (Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy-Insomnia) practitioner.

TS-BTI Certified (Tourettes Syndrom-Behavioral Therapy Institute) by the Tourettes Association of America

ADHD Certified Clinical Services Provider (ADHD-CSSP)

Over 180 hours of Advanced Training in Sex Therapy (AASECT approved)

Life Outside of Therapy:

I live in the Northern Virginia area with my wife and rescue dog. In my free time I enjoy being with my family, weight training, running, and exploring local restaurants and wineries.

I know how hard it is to seek help. Change, healing, and growth are difficult endeavors. But the great news is they are completely possible and will help you start living the satisfied life you deserve.